Friday, October 10, 2008

Perseus in 3-D

"How far along are you?" I grabbed the counter, out of breath and clutching my belly. "Just give me a second," I tried to recover. "January." Her look of concern eased into a smile. "Oh, I was born in January too!" By then I'd finally caught my breath and the mild cramping had ceased. I was able to let go of the counter, "What does that weigh?" I pointed. "That's half a pound." "Okay, I'll take half a pound of the rocky road, half a pound of the double dark chocolate, and half a pound of the regular chocolate."

I ran back to my car with a bag of Annapolis fudge. I was late for a lunch meet-up with Which Box.

The discomfort barely phased me. I'd just seen Perseus in 3-D fifteen minutes earlier. I could still hear Dr. Spleeney, the world's best (and most handsome) perinatologist, say, "He's perfect." The words I swallowed which went unsaid were, "He looks just like his father." I couldn't say it. Not out loud.

Mr. Hyde once said that women were little more than succubi, seducing and draining men of energy and resource to near death. As with so much, he touched close to truth, missing it just enough to be entirely incorrect.

I loved my husband when Perseus was conceived. If I believed in such things I'd like to think that I did drain him of all that was good and admirable. When I left him all that was left was a miserable shell. What I took, continues to grow into someone healthy, perfectly formed, and loved completely.


64 comments:

Anonymous said...

He.....is beautiful.

janet

h2o girl said...

Oh, he's perfect, Antigone.

Leah said...

Absolutely beautiful.

Reese said...

It is so, taking the very best of that man I mean.

You got a beautiful baby boy there, Antigone. ((Smile))

Scarlet said...

I have tears of joy in my eyes. He's exquisite.

k@lakly said...

What a looker:)

erin said...

oh... he's lovely. perfectly lovely.

CageQueen said...

He's gorgeous!

Aunt Becky said...

Gorgeous. Simply gorgeous little boy.

Heidi said...

What a handsome little boy!!!

Betty M said...

A sweetie!

Anonymous said...

He's gorgeous! Congratulations.

Amanda said...

He's so handsome!!!

White Picket Fences said...

He's stunning ...amazingly perfect.

annacyclopedia said...

Absolutely beautiful. With tears in my eyes and joy in my heart.

momofonefornow said...

So, so precious. Here's to his health and yours. (raising my glass)

yummysushipajamas said...

Oh, he is perfect and beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing with us!!! I hope the cramping is not an issue...

Mary-LUE said...

Wow!!!!

Anonymous said...

Oh Antigone, he is just too adorable already! Is it too early to say he is going to be a heartbreaker? - Allison

Anonymous said...

I think that is the most beautiful baby I've ever seen in my life.....

Dora said...

Oh, my! What a beautiful boy. What a wonderful man he's going to be.

Antigone said...

I love you guys. Thank you for sharing this with me.

Anonymous said...

First time poster here, but I just wanted to say he is gorgeous.

Julia said...

What a cutie!

I would look at it like this: it's not that you sucked the good stuff out, it's that from the torrent of everything that he was, because of your love, you took only the good stuff, filtering all the crap away.

Dagny said...

He's just awesome.

xoxo

Sue said...

I like what Julia said.

And he is amazing.

Another Dreamer said...

Awwww, he is soooooo beautiful. Words can not describe.

Clarabella said...

He's beautiful. Only good things could make him up!

Elizabeth said...

so precious. fresh, perfect, innocent, and so wonderfully loved.

Smiling said...

that is the most beautiful photo I've ever seen. That is incredible. I think you did take all the goodness with you. Well done!

Michelle said...

OMG he is so perfect and so beautiful! I am so so truly happy and excited for you!!!!

Amy said...

precious and beautiful, but you know, when he grows up, he might not like be called beautiful so i will saw perfectly handsome :)

Jendeis said...

Heartbreakingly gorgeous. I'm sure you know we all love him already.

Rita said...

my soul rejoices

Anonymous said...

He is precious!!!! So beautiful!!! Praying for you from Dallas....Hope you have a wonderful, relaxing weekend.

Valerie said...

Beautiful

Anonymous said...

pic brought tears of joy. congrats he look strong, brave and handsome.

Kymberli said...

The words, the picture ... just perfect. Perseus is beautiful.

dahliah said...

What a beautiful boy. Absolutely beautiful!

kattastropheann said...

I have tears in my eyes too. He is so beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing that with us.

Jen said...

He's absolutely perfect!!

dee-ah-nah said...

What a beautiful baby! Congratulations and hold on to the love that is growing inside of you.

:pG said...

Oh, what a cutie pie!

Skerry said...

I think he looks like himself...Perseus....and he is beautiful!

Korechronicles said...

Your beautiful son, Antigone.

girlh said...

Perfect.

Cara said...

Stunning. Every angle and peaceful feature of his face. Perfect!

Dagny said...

Can't. Stop. Coming. Back. To. See. Perseus.

addicted.

he's just perfect.

I am so glad.

xoxoxo

Aurelia said...

he's lovely. i'm happy things are going well!

Mer said...

Such a beautiful picture of your incredibly handsome son.

battynurse said...

He's beautiful.
And yes, that would be truly fantastic if the ex was completely drained and nothing but a shell. No longer able to affect you at all nor able to hurt anyone else.

Kristin (kekis) said...

Antigone - he is gorgeous! And he IS PERFECT! If it is true that whatever was good about the ex was taken from him, then it was put into that precious little boy of yours. Keep growing, Perseus! You are loved.

::my dogs wave paws to Sothis::

Irish Girl said...

He is awesome, A. What a beautiful miracle. I am so happy for you.

Rosepetal said...

He looks fantastic. I like that idea that you sucked all that was good from your husband and made it into Perseus.

Bon said...

i too love the idea that you took all the good available to make Perseus...he is beautiful.

Antonette (1crazymomma) said...

Hellooooo handsome!

CLC said...

What a beautiful babe.

Stacie said...

He's beautiful. Just beautiful.

And I am so happy for you.

theclam said...

What a gorgeous boy!

xxx

Suzanna Catherine said...

What a little doll-baby! Adorable!

niobe said...

Amazing photo... He's gorgeous.

Rory said...

He is beautiful!

jennyquarx said...

I've never commented before but I've been reading for awhile. Found you through Dagny. Had to comment to tell you he is absolutely gorgeous. And you will be wonderful. Another person of the internets pulling for you.

xoxoxoxo

sacredandscarred said...

Perfect and beautiful. And SO very loved.